Congratulations on the Enner, Mindmaker
I suppose the boots of strength and gauntlets of strength are a fit choice (also, the weight of leather and ommel hair is neglible compared to the metal ones, so You can keep it anyway
. Or at least stack in a chest in town.)
I usually use heavy body armor, heavily enchanted boots of agility (sometimes I change them into metal ones), gauntlets of strength and a dragon hide cloak. This is basically a tank-setup. Many other players prefer chainmail and "soft" limb covers, and combined with a high agility this gives
significant results.
Oh, I also tend to stack awesome equipment, but not wear different pieces of armour (except, e.g., belts). But nonetheless I'd rather keep the spider silk armor in case of gaining a cool pet.
How to manage it? Hmm. Most liquids go to the can, ommelines have a seperate chest, as do wands.I think keeping some of the bulky stuff in a chest may be an investment worth the trouble, because in case of a tough fight/runaway You can just drop it. Also, it's ok to give, for example, a chest with pretty armor to a pet mistress/slave/guard. On the other hand, there's the burden of the chests themselves. But a regular, "medium" chest will probably house all of Your wand/potion/scroll/artifact (after all, in case of death we don't want dark knights with a Muramasa haunting the level!) needs.
I can't really help with the weapons, because I didn't play LIVAN. Same for the spider. Sorry.